The Importance of Breaking Down Your Nights

If you are going out constantly, and you don’t feel like you’re making progress. You need to start breaking down your nights, self assessing your skills, without any attachment to your ego. When pick-up started in Hollywood, Mystery and his students believed that everything had a solution, and everything had to be field tested. They would stay up all night trying to figure out what they did wrong and how they can improve. They believed that every situation could be solved using the right technique. Today, this is not seen as a valid strategy, but the dedication they put into […]

Must Read Books if You’re Starting off in Game

no more mr nice guy cover

Let’s face it, if you are starting off in game, you’re probably not a natural with women. You probably found the pick up community because you may have some self-esteem issues, anxiety, or some inner game problems (we all did to some extent). I would strongly recommend reading the three books below, make it part of your pick up journey. You can read them while you are going out. No More Mr. Nice Guy – Dr Robert Glover The ‘nice guy’ syndrome is pretty common in our society. If you are a nice guy, the book will be a bit disconcerting […]

On Rejection

If you’re starting off with game, you need to look forward to rejections. They need to be part of your reality. For the first 6 months, you should be getting tons and tons of rejections, maybe one or two make outs, maybe even a lucky pull. But for the most part, you should be experimenting with different techniques, getting rejected and learning from your mistakes. Rejection is the only way to learn. Fearing rejection is an evolutionary tool. When we lived in tribes, getting rejected from the tribe meant death, as the tribe was our only means of survival. Nowadays, […]

Pros and Cons of Approaching

I’m retarded. No matter how many times I go out, I always forget why I’m doing it – to approach women. Every time I go to bed after another night of no results, I always think of all the right things – “I can just walk up and do it, it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks”, “This could all just be a computer simulation anyway, of course I can walk up and talk to a girl”, “I have absolutely nothing to lose except some ego by walking up and talking to her.” But when the moment comes and I […]

What Attracts Women

Yes, girls have a type, they can distinguish between an attractive and an unattractive guy. Yes, appearance can hinder your success. A girl can easily put a label on you, based on your race, your mannerisms, how you dress etc. She can judge you based on past experiences with guys from your demographic. But it’s not that simple, yes looks give you permission (to approach, to escalate), they could make the seduction process easier, if you have social proof and you are physically attractive. But even if you are not the most attractive guy, you can give yourself permission: there […]