How to Vibe With Any Girl

Structure of Verbal Game (Vibing) Verbal Game = chody (or comfort talk) + emotional spikes (negative and positive). The above is pretty straight froward, follow the formula and the girl’s emotions will be with you. Comfort talk is basically an exchange of information. ‘Hello, I’m a yoga instructor’. Use it so you guys get to know each other, and she feels comfortable with you. Don’t talk to her in interview mode. It’s ok to ask a few questions, but try to make statements instead, and actually get to know her. Remember, the girl is out at a club/bar to have […]

The Two Hook Points in Any Interaction

Vibing is the key to getting a girl attracted to you. This mainly comes down to two points in the interaction that you need to reach: the ‘social hook point’ and the ‘sexual hook point’. The Social Hook Point At first, you need to reach the ‘social hook point’. This means that the girl understands that you’re not a creep, you’re a normal guy who’s not afraid to approach. This can be reached with any girl. Remember at this point, she doesn’t think you’re interested in her. She’s just having a nice conversation with you. Tips to reach the social […]

Dealing With Her Friends

Guess What? Her friends are going to decide if you’re cool, if you’re allowed to go with her/pull her, and if she can give you her number. Remember, every girl’s entire social status rests on her friends. She will not upset them, and if they drag her away, she will happily comply (unless you are Leonardo DiCaprio). This is why it’s so much easier to pick-up a girl when her friends are not around, and this is why you need to isolate her. Her SD (slut defense) will be up, if her friends are around. Before I get into this […]

On Indicators of Interest – IOIs

Indicators of Interest- or IOIs, as the pick up community calls them, are very subtle hints girls will give you. These usually mean that the girl’s emotions are aroused, and that she wants more of your masculine energy. They also indicate that the girl is interested or attracted to you. Girls will rarely verbalize attraction (it happens but not often). Their emotions come out in terms of subtle IOIs, you need to look at their body language and the sub-communications. Here are some examples The universal make out sign: she looks at you, then she looks at your lips (unless […]

On Shit Tests

Shit tests can be very subtle. They can range from the obvious ‘is that your pickup line’ , to the subtle frame tests that girls throw at you to make sure you’re congruent. High value girls get approached A LOT (more than you can imagine). They subconsciously turn to their female energy to guide them on assessing a guy’s congruency. As female energy is all about testing men’s boundaries (see David Deida’s The Way of The Superior Man); it is obvious that women will test your masculinity. Shit tests are a form of IOI. A girl whose not interested in you, […]

On Physical Escalation

Physical escalation is extremely important when it comes to getting laid. If you can open and hook consistently, that means you can get girls interested to want to have a conversation with you. The next most important step, is to make it ‘man to woman’, i.e show that you are interested in the girl sexually.  Remember, escalation leads to sex. If you are not physically escalating, you will not get laid- with most girls. Next, you need to calibrate, every time you escalate on a girl, ask yourself how is she feeling, and calibrate accordingly. You must pull away if […]